Although my trip on the plane left a little to be desired, the night had started exactly as I had hoped...I had met Mitch at his baseball game in Hoover, Alabama, and had spent the evening watching baseball in the warm, balmy weather of the south. The game ended at around 9:15 p.m, and he and I had arranged to meet back at the hotel where we would finally have a chance to sit down and really spend some quality time getting to know one another.
Mitch, still dressed in his baseball uniform, arrived at the hotel just a few minutes after I did. He changed into his regular clothes and cleaned up, and we had a few minutes to talk before we had dinner. I was not surprised that Mitch was as warm, open and funny in person as he had been all those months when we talked on the phone. In fact--and I know how odd this sounds--it was so extraordinarily gratifying to hear his voice and to see his face and facial expressions while he talked. It was, at last, a time to put a voice to a face for both of us and it added more dimension to our friendship.
Mitch was impressed with the hotel room, and spent a few minutes bouncing up and down on the edge of the bed. As always seems to be the case with us, things got amusing quickly. I wanted to take pictures of Mitch and HE, well, he wanted to "fly." So as Mitch leaped into the air and landed on the bed, I shot a few pictures of him "Superman" style in the hotel room...like this:


and this...
Believe me, taking a decent picture of anyone "mid-jump" and framing it "just so" is hard, and as we discussed whether it would be "1-2-3 then JUMP" or "1-2-JUMP on 3." He and I laughed as we took about 6 shots and only got these two of him actually jumping in the air!
Our dinners that evening consisted of steak and fries (he) and salmon and crispy green beans (me). We tried a little of the other's dinner, which was delicious. I remember teasing him that his steak tasted "broiled," which Mitch said would NOT be done by any self-respecting chef in the south.
Mitch and I have had lengthy discussions on the proper seasoning, preparation and cooking of steak. His method takes two hours and involves meat "rubs" and then a marinade and finally nudging the steak into a state of medium rare doneness by excessively slow cooking over a barbeque grill. By contrast, my method is salt, pepper and throwing that "puppy" into an oven under a super-hot broiler, which takes me 8 minutes (tops) to make a steak. By the way, Mitch calls me "Un-American" for treating steak in such an unfriendly and irreverent manner, and this just makes me laugh. I have promised him a broiled steak when he visits me--he is NOT looking forward to that meal!
I may have twitted him about his steak, but he made fun of my green beans (vegetables are NOT his favorite unless they are canned--yuck!) and then pointed out the oddly shaped fingerling potatoes scattered next to my grilled salmon. My last "dig" to him was how much salt he sprinkled on absolutely everything on his plate! He smiled and gave me the usual "blah blah blah" response, which meant he wouldn't argue with me (for now). I don't remember all that we discussed that Thursday, but I know we laughed--a lot.
Afterwards, we went outside and sat on an incredibly uncomfortable metal bench located at the front of the hotel. The air was still very hot and sticky-ish with humidity, and off in the distance I heard something that sounded like a cross between a frog and insect. It made a lowish "bah bah bah" sound.
"WHAT is THAT noise?" I asked Mitch, as I pointed off in the distance.
"The sound? Oh that's just crickets...you've heard crickets before, right?" Mitch was slightly amused by my question.
"Yeah, well, these crickets sound like they have strep throat or something. The crickets in California sound melodious, and these things sound kinda sick." I was listening hard, concentrating on the sound, but it didn't sound like any crickets I'd ever heard before. It sounded like frogs, and I'm really NOT--as Mitch fully knows--a fan of anything lizard-y, frog-y, slime-y or reptile-y. "Sounds like a frog," I said cautiously and under my breath. We did not investigate the sound further, thankfully, and my first night ended with great memories of baseball and conversations with Mitch.
Mitch was the perfect host in Alabama, and spent as much time with me as he could during my three days there. He helped his parents on Friday morning, but was back at the hotel in time to eat lunch and dinner with me and to go with me to the Riverchase Galleria shopping mall, which is attached to the hotel. We went to a store called "Belk's," which is very prominent in 16 states in the South and the lower portions of the East Coast, but does not exist in the Midwest or West Coast. We shopped at Belk's almost exclusively that Friday and bought clothes and shoes. When it comes to shopping, Mitch and I are equally shop-a-holics, and it took little for either of us to spend money. Then we had dinner and sat by the pool for a bit. Another great day in Alabama!
While we are very similar, we also have some prominent differences too. For example, on Saturday morning, my last full day in Alabama, Mitch and I had the breakfast buffet in the hotel restaurant. I watched as Mitch loaded up on potatoes, bacon, and waffles--his food was all brown and shades of brown and then, as always, he proceeded to pour mountains of salt on everything except the waffle. On the other hand, I picked up a plate and went to the opposite table where cold foods were being housed, and loaded up on a colorful medley of fruits, melons and berries, which I topped with cottage cheese and pine nuts. We took a seat on a bench table where, to my left, a flat screen television was playing highlights from the sports channel ESPN, and on my right, a flat screen was showing world and financial news from FOX. It didn't take me long to notice that Mitch was staring at ESPN and I was looking the entire time at FOX world and financial news. Similarly, Mitch had caught sight of my plate of fruits and cottage cheese, pulled a face, and said "Don't you like bacon and potatoes?" I smiled and told him I was still sort of on California time, and I didn't usually eat that heavily in the morning. Personally, as much as we are similar, our different perspectives and preferences is often what we find so amusing.
Saturday, we did more shopping at the Riverchase Galleria where we had a great time investigating jewelry designs and styles with a wonderful sales assistant at Von Maur's in the mall, and where I bought two pieces of jewelry--one necklace with an abstract open "leaf" design that Mitch helped me pick out and one Pandora snake charm, which reminded me of Mitch, because every time I looked for him at Von Maur's he had "slithered" away to look at watches or something that caught his attention.
We also bought a plethora of items including souvenirs, fake mustaches, Minion socks, and an extremely useful hat for the game on Sunday, and generally, as we always seem to do, we had a great time laughing and talking. We finished the night with one video duet that we posted for our friends on Smule. (I also met Rick Allen, the drummer from Def Leppard that evening, but that's another story...believe me)
I checked out of the hotel that Sunday and headed for the last time to the ballpark to watch the beginning of Mitch's baseball game before heading back to Atlanta and then home to California. Unlike the previous days, it was sunny and without a rain cloud in the sky. I put my new wide brimmed black hat on my head and a pair of sunglasses and walked from the parking lot toward the ball park. Some one let out a loud "cat call" whistle and then had to laugh when I turned around to find Mitch's parents waving me over. Walking with his mom and dad for this last time, we found seats on the benches, and Mitch's dad put up a shady umbrella for relief against the sun. His mother, father and I talked as we waited for Mitch to bat before I had to leave. It was then I realized I was ending my trip as I had started it...with baseball, Mitch's first and greatest love.

It was all too soon before I realized it was time to go. I caught a few more pics of Mitch before driving to Atlanta. His mother Jennifer and I held back tears as we said goodbye. It was so great to meet everyone at last, and so sad to leave them after such a short, but eventful, visit. I knew it would not be the last time I saw Mitch and his parents, but certainly, at that moment, I was already beginning to miss them!
As I drove back to Atlanta, I'm not sure what I had expected on this trip to Alabama. Certainly, I wanted to see the state, to meet with my best friend, Mitch, and to talk to his parents in person. But I came away with more...if Mitch and I were friends before we met, we affirmed and deepened that friendship now after my visit.
These days, I tell him when we talk on the phone that I can "see" his face and imagine him talking (which I could not do before). We are also business partners who've faced differences of opinion in our business styles, but knowing each other personally has helped us draw on a deeper understanding of one another to resolve differences or negotiate challenges. Probably the trickiest part of having both a friendship and a working business relationship is maintaining both. I always remember what Mitch made me promise when we first launched business projects together and that was that we would always be friends first, business partners second and I have tried to remember that always. He makes it easy, however, since he is one of the most empathetic and generous people I know, so he will often let me have my way. But he really is the best...I believed it before the trip and I believe it even more fervently now!
We'll get together again soon and I'm looking forward to showing him California this time! I can only imagine the mischief we will get into in San Francisco, but that's a tale for a later date.
Singers Mentioned Here:
Mitch B. goes by the Smule tag @wlm_mitch22_sf and can be found singing a wide--and I mean WIDE--variety of music here on Smule. You can join him for duets that he posts on his site!
Me? I'm Grace and go by the Smule name @pokeypal. Join me and follow me for the latest information on the crazy activities we've got planned on Smule.